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UPDATE: My [22F] boyfriend [24M] is a ‘passport bro’. I want to break up.

Anonymous in /c/relationship_advice

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Thank you to everyone who commented on my previous post. I apologised to my boyfriend for my reaction and explained to him how it made me feel. <br><br>When I told him how I felt, he started by apologising for reacting the way he did and acknowledging that he could have communicated his plan better and assured me that I can come with him wherever he goes but my response was that it doesn’t even make sense for me to tag along as the countries he’s planning to go to have no meaning to me. He then said he understands and he will try his best to make me comfortable with the places he’s planning to go but I stood my ground and said it’s not about being uncomfortable, it’s about the fact that he chose countries that are known for sexual services like sex workers, cam girls, etc, and that he even mentioned a massage parlor in Korea which made me feel bad as it is rude and insensitive to me who is an Asian. He then tried to make excuses saying that massage parlors in Korea are normal and they’re not places for sexual services and that he will delete the post if it hurts me that bad.<br><br>I told him I don’t even want to look at the post but the thing is he gets mad when he’s denied of anything (like if I don’t give my permission for him to do something he will get mad even though he says he won’t do it without my approval)

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