I'm 21 and I'm not a virgin, so what?

I'm a lowkey 21 year old virgin. I didn't lose my virginity before I turned 21. I didn't get into any fights before 21 (I'm 6'2" 170 lbs so I'm not really intimidating) I didn't "get out of my parents basement" before 21. I didn't join any clubs, get any girls numbers, get a job, build muscle, learn how to cook, get a drivers license, etc, etc. I didn't even mow the lawn until last year. I'm 21, I don't have a drivers license, I'm 130 lbs, I have no skills or hobbies, I have no friends, I don't know how to talk to girls, I'm still a virgin, and I'm still living in my parents basement. I'm a loser. I'm 6'2 130 lbs and I'm a loser. I'm a lowkey 21 year old virgin, I don't have my shit together, I have to drive a Honda civic, I'm an incels. Who cares. Why does everyone make such a big deal about being a 21 year old virgin. They won't "let me live" about it even though I don't give a fuck. Why do you care that I'm a 21 year old virgin? Why does that matter to you? Why do you care that I'm still living in my parents basement? I could be a successful doctor who lives in a mansion; if I'm 130 lbs, then I'm still a loser. Why is it everyone's concern that I'm 130 lbs? Why do you care what my sex life is like? Why does everyone have to make me feel so ashamed of myself? Do you ignore everyone else's flaws so you can focus on mine? Do you do this for your friends too or is it only me? I'm not scared to break up with you, I'm not your boyfriend, I'm not even your friend. Get off my back. I don't give a fuck what you have to say about me. I'm a lowkey 21 year old virgin, so what? I'm not a "lowkey 21 year old" anything. I'm just a 21 year old. I'm 130 lbs and I'm 6'2. So what. I don't have any hobbies. So what. I don't have any friends. So what. I don't have a job. So what. I don't have a car. So what. Part of being an adult is accepting reality and I'm a loser. I'm a 21 year old virgin lowlife loser. I've accepted my reality. Why do you care?