I fucking hate "polyamory"

I hate it. I hate the concept, I hate the community and I've never, EVER been a fan of that stupid term. I also hate the incessant need to flaunt it and "educate" others on it.<br><br>I'm gonna go out on a limb and say that over 90% of you "poly" people are just selfish assholes trying to sugar coat your kink for everyone else.<br><br>Born in a Fucking hell hole, grew up in a Christian family, gay as hell. When I found out I was bi, I celebrated! I celebrated love, the diversity of love, being the black sheep family outcast. I went to pride parades, met a lot of LGBTQ+ people in the process.<br><br>I've had the most loving relationships, with the most loving, selfless partners. But lately, all I see are a bunch of obnoxious, self-absorbed "polyamorous" pricks.<br><br>Polyamory: a lot of different people sharing a lot of love.<br><br>But it's not. It's not at fucking all. It's a bunch of fuckers that don't care about their partners, only about themselves. I've never met a poly person who doesn't eventually have some sort of ordeal with a partner, and it's always because they're just a selfish prick.<br><br>"I've always considered myself poly, but never found anyone I connected with until now," and then you find out they're in open relationships with FIVE people, and they "forgot" to tell you because they "didn't realize" they were poly. They're not poly, they just don't care about you.<br><br>"Our poly community is really great, we're like a big family, and EVERYONE is your type, so..."<br><br>No. The poly community is heavily sexualized, and the community itself is heavily based on sex. This is not a loving community. It's a community of extremely selfish people.<br><br>"I've been poly my whole life, I've been in multiple relationships in the past, but I promise this relationship will be different."<br><br>No, you selfish prick, it won't. If you were truly poly, you would've had happy relationships, with HAPPY partners. But you didn't. You've been in multiple relationships in the past. They all broke up with you for a reason. You're not special, you're not unique, and you're not some sort of fucking martyr for being different. You're just a selfish asshole, and you always will be.<br><br>I fucking hate the polyamory community. They're not a fucking family, they're a fucking kink. They don't deserve to be accepted as some sort of fucking proud subculture. I'm not gonna hop on the "poly love" bandwagon just to be accepted. I'm not gonna flaunt my relationships, I don't need to. I'm not gonna suck up to the community and go to poly parties, poly bars, and horseshit like that. fuck off with your poly bullshit.<br><br>And finally, fuck whoever came up with the term "polyamory". It's the most pretentious, obnoxious fucking term I've ever heard, and I fucking hate hearing it. "Oh, polyamory is just the act of loving multiple people at once, it doesn't always mean it's a sexual/romantic relationship." Yeah, yeah, yeah, you love to call your friends and family poly relationships to sound edgy. Guess what? You're not. You're just a fucking tool.