AITA For Clicking a Picture with the bride’s sister as my wife as she tried to steal the attention on her sister’s day and humiliated my wife.
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UPDATE : I and my wife have decided to send the photos of us with her family to the groom and his family. We also decided to keep the ownership of the house with me and not change its name till we have a talk with him. Also, I am sorry but I can not give any more update as we are busy with family. Thanks everyone for the advices and support.<br><br>Context: I am a 35 year old guy, I have 2 sisters and no brothers. My parents passed away a year ago in an accident. I was the only financially strong person in the family and was taking care of my wife and sister.<br><br>I and my wife met in college and got married 4 years ago. I love her more than anything and she is my best friend.<br><br>My sister shouted at my wife for no reason and my wife cried. I confronted my sister and she had been embarrassed by my wife. I apologogized to her and said she needs to grow up.<br><br>I and my wife are 7th months pregnant. My sister got engaged and we were more than happy for her.<br><br>The problem starts here, my sister and her fiance demanded a house and since they were getting married and had nowhere to stay, I decided to give them my house. I, my wife and her parents stayed in the flat we rented. We have now decided to permanently stay there and we are going to sell the house. We have given them a deadline to vacate the house by the end of the year.<br><br>My sister and her fiance got married last weekend. My wife was handling all the decorations of wedding and I was taking care of the food. The wedding went successfully and everyone liked the decorations and the food. My wife and I were taking pictures of the wedding since she was a professional photographer and she offered to take the pictures as a wedding gift.<br><br>My sister’s best friend was at the wedding too. My wife was tired and she sat on a chair while I and her parents were giving the food to the guests. My sister’s best friend came to my wife and commented that she looked fat and ugly. My wife ignored and she again said that she looked like a whale and she is so ugly. My wife cried and I got mad. I went to my sister and confronted her telling her to handle her best friend as she was bodyshaming my wife. My sister humiliated my wife by saying that she was a fat whale and she can’t stand her.<br><br>My wife and I were extremely hurt by her words. I and my wife and her parents decided to leave but were stopped by my Wife’s parents. They told us to take more pictures and leave. I was so hurt and my wife and her parents convinced me to stay. I got more mad as my sister came to us and I wanted to say something to her but my wife stopped me. My wife was so hurt but she was handling it well. She got ready to take more pictures and she wanted me to be happy since I love pictures and she loves taking them.<br><br>I Clicked pictures with multiple relatives and since my sister humiliated my wife, I decided to make her my model for the rest of the pictures. I clicked pictures with her, with her parents and everyone and made sure I gave her the attention she deserved. My sister was getting jealous and she wanted all the hurry but I clicked pictures with everyone and didn’t let her feel special.<br><br>After a while, my sister and her husband wanted to leave and we decided to leave with them as they felt humiliated and didn’t get the attention they wanted. We were not a blocker but they still wanted to leave and humiliate my wife. My wife cried so much as they humiliated her and she was hurt that her own sister in law was jealous of her on her sister’s big day.<br><br>I am still hurt and my wife is crying all the time. I am thinking of cutting her out of our lives and I want to know if I should.
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