Women can be just as toxic as men. But only men can be told off for being toxic

Title says it all. I feel like every day, a man can do the exact same thing as a woman, and the woman will get called a bitch or a c-word or whatever, but the man will get called a chauvinist, misogynist, incel, or any number of other slurs. Women can be just as abusive, manipulative, and just down right nasty to people, but it seems like they always get a free pass. It seems like the world just wants to make sure women are treated nicely, but men can be as nasty as they want, and as long as it's towards a woman, it's justified.