The man I blocked on every social media platform and my nightmare
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I can’t describe what happened properly without giving a back story so I apologize for the lengthy post. I met him on Kik about 4 years ago when I was 14. He was 17 and I lied about my age saying I was 17 too (I know it was stupid). We were just friends at first but I knew he had a bit of a thing for me. I blocked him on everything and we didn’t talk again until last year. We added each other on snapchat and started talking again. Turns out he still had the same feelings for me and I did for him. We talked for a few days before he asked for nudes. I sent a few but nothing too explicit. I sent one of me in a thong and he started calling me a whore and slut. I was so confused because I had just sent him a photo. I took it he was just jealous so I forgave him but he did it again a few days later. I didn’t end up sending any more photos. <br><br>He started getting weird. He would call me beautiful and babe and stuff then suddenly out of nowhere he would call me a whore again. I was so confused. He asked for my address and I said no and he told me he wanted to send me gifts. We had been talking for about 3 weeks and I had only seen one photo of him. From that photo I couldn’t see his face so I asked for another and he said no. My gut told me something was off. I was going to block him when he called me a whore and disgusting again. I had had enough. I told him I was going to block him and he started begging me not to. He said he needed help and I needed to help him. He told me he was mentally ill and that when he sees pictures of girls in revealing clothing he gets angry and calls them whores. He told me he couldn’t control it. I was so confused and he asked me if I knew anything about DID. I told him I knew a little and he told me he was mentally ill and since he was little he would see things and hear voices. He told me he had multiple personalities and that one of them was evil and made him call girls whores. I took his word for it. Now I believe he was lying but at the time I had no idea. I ended up forgiving him and he said he would get help. <br><br>He wouldn’t leave me alone. When I wouldn’t respond to him he would just keep spamming me messages. One day when I was at school I got thousands of messages and I didn’t know what to do. I came home from school and I had 3k messages. I asked him to stop and that it was creepy. He would get angry when I didn’t respond. He would call me a whore and say I was disgusting. He would tell me I shouldn’t have sent those photos to him. I would respond and he would act normal until I wouldn’t respond again and he would blow up at me. It was a horrible cycle and it made me feel sick. I felt disgusting. I was sick of being called whores all the time. I felt awful. I was sick of being treated like that. <br><br>One day he asked for my address again and I told him if he was going to get gifts I would give it to him. He said I didn’t have to give it to him, I could give it to his dad. He gave me his dad’s number, first and last name and address. He said he was in the army and was currently in another country. His dad was supposed to pick up the gifts and mail them to me. I did this, but when I called his dad’s phone it went straight to voicemail. I left a message and the next day I got a text from him. It was strange because the text was from a completely different number. When guys dad texted me it had the same number as the number his son gave me. We made an arrangement to meet and he would give me the gifts. I never met him. I never went to the address but something felt off. I Google mapped the address he gave me and it was a school. I blocked him and never looked back. <br><br>Fast forward to a few days ago. I was talking to my friends when they told me they had met the guy I had been talking to. They said he was my age and lived in my city. Turns out the address he gave me was actually his school and the number he gave me for his dad was his friends number. He had left a message for his friend to tell me that he was his dad and wanted to meet me to give me gifts. I got so sick when I found out. It made me feel disgusting and awful. I blocked him and never look back. I blocked him on everything and never talked to him again. He would message an old Kik account I had and I would delete it. It’s been a year now and I’m finally getting over the trauma he caused.
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