I am that guy who gives dirty looks to out of shape fathers

I am that guy that always gives dirty looks to out of shape fathers because I believe it's pathetic to become a parent right before midlife.<br><br>People have told me I look older than my age because I work out and take care of myself, I'm in my early 20s. Shortly after New Years, I stopped going to the gym because I've been so busy with work. Just before the holidays I was a fit, active man thriving in life. I was a sexual peak and I had no problem getting women.<br><br>Just recently I started going to the gym again. I am 6 feet tall and I had lost nearly 30 pounds. I am back working out in the gym and I have noticed many men who are in their 30s and 40s who are overweight and out of shape. I see many of these guys who are out of shape and obese who have kids. The kids are often times older than I am.<br><br>How pathetic it must be to have a gut and be out of shape before hitting middle age. I see many guys who are 30-40 years old who have kids that are grown up and in their mid 20s. I see many of these guys who are skinny fat and don't where their wedding bands.<br><br>I would give them 3-4 years before the wife leaves them for a younger guy. The children will have left the nest and many of them will have a younger partner. The wife will often times kick the husband out and will have a child with another man.<br><br>I give dirty looks to out of shape dads at the grocery store, at the park, at restaurants and where ever else I see them. I give them dirty looks because I believe it's pathetic to become a parent in your late 20s or early 30s. I believe it's pathetic for someone to become a parent if they have no body. I believe it's pathetic if a male becomes a parent before they hit their sexual peak. I believe it's pathetic to have your own children right before midlife right before your hormones and testosterone levels drop.