Rant - I hate how modern women act when it comes to sex and dating

I am a 20yo guy. I am not good looking and I am not in top physical shape. I don’t go to the gym, I am not rich, and I am not famous. I have a basic life, nothing special. But I am a kind guy, and I want to date, but it seems like my female perspective is all wrong. I was talking with my friends and I am wondering what goes through a woman's head.<br><br>I am a virgin. I have never dated before. I am scared of rejection and failure. So when I try and talk to a woman I feel like I need to act in a certain way. I feel like I need to be overly friendly and nice, and be very caring. When I am around women I feel like I need to be polite and nice. I feel like this is the correct thing to do, because I want her to like me.<br><br>But I recently realized that this attitude seems to have the opposite effect. Women don't like my kind behavior. They seem to hate it. I was recently talking to this girl I had a crush on, and I was being very caring and polite. I was being friendly, and trying to talk about her interests and hobbies. She acted annoyed and annoyed, and then said I was being too "pushy". She then ghosted me.<br><br>This isn't the only time this has happened. Every woman I have had a crush on in the past has done something like this. I don't understand the woman's perspective, and I am very confused. If a woman is interested in me, why doesn't she act like it? Why doesn't she show interest in me? Why does she want me to act cold and not caring, and then act uninterested? Why does she expect me to pursue her, and not expect me to be nice? Why does she want me to act like a jerk?<br><br>I don't understand how women act. I want to date, and I want to be happy, but I don't understand the woman's perspective. Why does it seem like she is just waiting to see if I will act like a chad before she decides if she likes me, and not if I am a good guy. I am not good looking, but I am a good guy. I am a hard worker, and I care a lot about others. I am a good person. I don’t understand why a woman wouldn’t be attracted to me, because I seem like I am a very nice and good guy. I am just very confused.