I need help with an aggressive topic around how I feel about body positivity and the ever increasingly broad scope of positivity across models, influencers and celebrities.

I'm a very serious fan of chubby women. This is an aggressive topic because it's a topic of many other subreddits and I don't want to step on anyones positivity. <br><br>I am a guy, a normal guy, who's been in the dating scene with all types of women. I've had the skinny girls, the athletic girls etc etc.<br><br>One night I met a chubby woman and I was absolutely infatuated by her. The things that really did it for me was 1.) She was just like ever other girl. 2.) She was chubby and that made her even more attractive to me. But 3.) She had the least confidence of any woman I ever dated. I think there's a long history of this woman being belittled and I don't understand why.<br><br>I was head over heels in love with her. I was infatuated by her. I was obsessed with her. But she would never admit that she was beautiful. So I think about all the years of her life when she was belittled and attacked by people who didn't see her beauty. I think of all the times she was told she was ugly, fat and disgusting. I think about how many times she was turned down for dates because she didn't meet some ideal body standard.<br><br>I think this is absolute bullshit. <br><br>So, I became an advocate for chubby women. I think they're beautiful. I think they're amazing. I think they're outstanding. I think chubby women are just as beautiful as all the skinny women out there. But if you go to be a model, influencer or celebrity you had better be skinny.<br><br>I think this is bullshit and I want to do something about it. I want to change this ideal standard of beauty. I want to tell the world that skinny is just as beautiful as chubby. That everyone has beauty in their own way regardless of their weight. I want women to have the confidence to be how ever they want to be. I want to change the world. <br><br>What steps do I take next?