Why the fuck do men still shame women for no makeup and pony tails?

I don't get it, it makes no fucking sense, women are taught that not wearing makeup or dressing up is disgusting, and I see a lot of guys saying "oh well I'd appreciate her more without makeup" but that's so fucking contradictory when you also shame them for not wearing it.<br><br>Women are either told that they're ugly without makeup, or ugly with it. Men shame them for both.<br><br>Women are either told that they're ugly with long hair, or ugly with short hair.<br><br>Even when men treat women (badly) like objects, they don't even treat them like nice objects but more like trash no one wants.<br><br>This shit gets me so fucking mad.