AITA for making my husband apologize to my best friend after I gave him a piece of my mind in front of his parents

My BFF has been the manager at a high end bridal boutique for 4 years. She’s one of the best in her field and has always been professional. She also sells products on the side to make extra money. These products are just random items she finds around cheap (deals, clearance, yard sales, etc) that she can resell for a higher price. <br><br>I’m 28f and my husband 30m is from a very wealthy family. Although he does not get the extreme amounts of money that his parents give the rest of the siblings, he can be quite spoiled. We met at the place where my best friend works and he wanted me to quit my job and stay home but I refused. I work from home now but I still work and make pretty good money doing it. My husband doesn’t think p I should be working at all since he makes enough money for us to be comfortable. So he tries to make me quit here and there but I don’t listen to him. He can get very spoiled and also very controlling when he wants something and doesn’t get his way. <br><br>For context my husband and I got married a year ago and his parents are very picky about the brands that they buy and wear. <br><br>We were at my sister in laws wedding last weekend and my husband wore a Gucci skinny tie. He was matched with a suit and tie picked by his parents. I don’t like the way skinny ties look but whatever. <br><br>He took the tie off when we got home and hung it in his closet. A couple of weeks later he wanted to wear that tie and couldn’t find it. I told him I returned it because it was fake. He was like wtf and I’m like it was so skinny and cheap looking and I knew it was fake so I returned it. He told me that the tie was ACTUALLY from Gucci and that the material loses color over time so it looks cheap. Honestly I didn’t think that was true but whatever. He was pissed that I returned the tie and his parents were upset too. They thought I disrespected them but I didn’t intend to. <br><br>Then last night he wanted me to go with him to his friend group function but I didn’t have time because I had to get something done. He didn’t want to go alone which is ok. I had my best friend go with him and she wore a circle skirt, band tee, and a denim jacket and some ugg boots. She looked very cute and she’s also very smart and pretty so his parents instantly liked her. <br><br>He told me what she wore and instantly I knew his parents weren’t going to like it. The next morning I asked him what his parents said about my best friend. He said his mom asked him who’s the poor girl he brought with him? I was like LOL your parents are so rude. He thought it was funny until I told him that they would probably like my best friend if they got to know her. <br><br><br>Then last night he told me that his parents asked him to stop getting ties from me because they found out that the tie I returned was ACTUALLY from Gucci. I asked him how did they find out. He said my best friend told them but I don’t think that’s true so I called my best friend and asked her if she told his parents that I returned the tie and she said no but his dad asked her what she thought about me selling fake Gucci so she said I don’t think my best friend sells fake anything. Tbh I was so confused and asked what she meant by that. She told me his parents asked her if she thought it was ok for me to sell fake Gucci. Then she said something like “I personally don’t think my best friend sells fake stuff but I’m not sure. You guys know her better than I do right?” Then his dad said no we don’t think she sells fake stuff but we’re just asking what do you thought about it. Then she said ok. I didn’t think they were being serious and I didn’t want them thinking that I thought my best friends stuff was fake. <br><br><br>Then I asked her if she knew why his parents would think that I sold fake Gucci and she said no she didn’t know. But she did say his mom asked her if she buys things from me and she said yes but that she’s never had a problem with anything she bought. His mom then asked if she’s ever bought a Gucci product from me and she said yes she bought a Gucci purse from me and it was beautiful. Then his mom asked to see a picture of it and she showed his mom and dad a picture and his parents said it was fake but she told them it was real and that I don’t sell fake things. <br><br><br>Then she said his mom was like “ok well maybe she didn’t know that she was selling fake Gucci but if you buy anything from her in the future make sure it’s real first” and my best friend told his mom that that would be rude and she doesn’t plan on doing that. <br><br><br>I told my husband all of this and he was like your best friend is just trying to save her own ass. I was like what? No but he told me his parents told him that my best friend knew that I sold fake products but she told them that it was fine because she liked the products regardless if they were fake or not. I told him that’s not true and he didn’t believe me and told me I had to stop listening to my best friend and believing everything she says. <br><br><br>I was pissed so I called his parents and asked them if they told my husband that my best friend knew I sold fake products and his mom told me that my best friend told them that she buys fake Coach, Louis Vuitton, Gucci and Chanel products from me. I was like first of all I don’t sell any of that. Second of all my best friend never bought any of those things from me. I don’t sell those types of products because they’re too expensive and I can’t afford to buy them in bulk. I told them that and they told me that they were just repeating what my best friend said. I was like ok so you believe everything she says but you don’t believe what I tell you to be true and then my husband took the phone from me and told me to stop and that I was being disrespectful. <br><br><br>He then told me I had to apologize to his parents for being disrespectful. I told him hell no and he told me that I had to. I was angry so I took the phone back and told his parents that I was very very disappointed and hurt that they would believe my best friend over me and tell my husband to get me to apologize and then I hung up. <br><br><br>He scolded me for some time until I told him I wasn’t going to speak to his parents until they apologized for believing my best friend over me. He called me stubborn and then left the house. When he came back I wasn’t in the right mindset to talk to his parents so I didn’t call them. <br><br><br>Then the next morning his mom and dad showed up at our house and I thought my husband called them but he didn’t they just showed up. They told me they wanted to talk in person so we sat down and my husband and his parents were ganged up on me about how I disrespected them and needed to apologize. I told them I wasn’t going to apologize again and that they needed to apologize to me first. They told me they weren’t going to apologize because I’m the one who’s been disrespectful. I told them that what they did was very disrespectful and that I couldn’t believe they believed my best friend over me and thought that I would steal from them but selling them fake products and then making my husband tell me to apologize for nothing. <br><br><br>Then my best friend called and I didn’t answer so she texted me asking if I was ok because she was worried that she caused a fight between me and my husband and his parents. I told her I was ok and I was talking to his parents right now. She told me to call her back after I was done. I was distracted with her texts and his mom told me that I’m not taking them seriously and that I need to get off my phone. I told her that my best friend was calling me and that she was worried and his dad instantly got up and took the phone from me and answered it. I told him to give me back my phone but my husband told me to stop being dramatic. I told him to get his dad off my phone and he wouldn’t do anything. His dad then started talking to my best friend and I heard him ask her if she buys fake designer products from me and she was like yes I do. I was like what the hell best friend. She said she buys fake Gucci and Chanel and Louis Vuitton and designer products from me and that she doesn’t care if they’re fake but she thinks that anything that I sell is very good quality. I was shocked and confused and asked what the hell she was talking about. <br><br><br>His parents then told her that they didn’t know that I sold fake products but now that they do they think I should refund her money back and I was like I didn’t fucking sell her fake products!!! I don’t even sell that type of stuff!! I was pissed and shrieking and my husband and his parents were telling me to calm down. I wasn’t calm and his dad asked my best friend if she was ok and if I was being violent towards her and she told him no but she instantly hung up and called back and told me to stop yelling at her and to get his dad off my phone. I instantly got my phone back and I told my best friend to stop playing games and get off my ass. She was like what?? And I told her to stop and get