I love trannies... but I'm no fan of their activism

I love dating trans people, watching trans porn, I like the aesthetic of trans woman, and my favorite thing in the world is calling a tranny girl my girlfriend. I love the rush of seeing her get ready from all the dedication and the effort that goes into being a trans woman.<br><br>But the one thing that makes me uncomfortable is advocates for the trans community. I don't think it's fair to say it's all trans people, but the louder ones are just the loudest and are usually the ones debating with non-trans people about trans people's existence. A lot of them are fine and rational, but it bothers me to see many of them act like assholes or babies. I don't like being associated with that, but I'm no longer sure why I even care about the association.<br><br>I feel like I'm being attacked if I refer to trans people as the gender they were born as. It's confusing as well since I don't like the term "born this way" in this context. I don't think the labels we give each other are a choice, so I don't think being trans is a choice, but I do think trans woman weren't born as female.<br><br>I'm not in support of the haters, but I also believe in free speech. I don't think anyone should be censored from saying anything as long as they're not inciting violence. And I don't think being trans is an excuse to use derogatory slurs. I'm not gonna police anyone, but we all should act like adults... or at least pretend to.<br><br>It's frustrating that I can't have an honest conversation with someone without feeling like I'm being attacked if I don't share the same sentiment as them, so I usually just avoid the topic of trans people. I just wish there were more people that just shared their stories and opinions and just didn't care what people had to say.<br><br>I just wanted to get this off my shoulders.<br><br>Thanks for reading.