My girlfriend and I (24F & 28M) took a break from drinking. But my girlfriend told me she’s not deleting the app she uses to meet up with men to hook up.

My girlfriend and I have been together for almost 4 years. We’ve lived together for about two years. I love her more than anyone else in this world. She makes me laugh like no other, she’s always there for me and does things for me that I don’t even ask for. We have so much fun together. I know I want to marry her. <br><br>However, things just got really weird and confusing. <br><br>She and I have a problem with drinking. We drink way too much and, sometimes, way too often. Drinking gave us lots of problems like losing my license for a year, getting very sick and hungover, and costing us thousands of dollars in medical bills. <br><br>We decided to both stop drinking. I cut out all alcohol completely. <br><br>The first week I stopped, I was craving a beer more than anything else in this world. It was painful not to have a beer. But I stuck with it and eventually even the craving for beer went away. And I felt amazing. <br><br>However, my girlfriend told me she can’t stop fully. She said she can’t give up drinking fully because it’s too painful. But we made a deal that she can only drink once or twice a week. I told her I’m not comfortable with us drinking together. So she agreed to drink by herself when she’s out with her friends. <br><br>Then my girlfriend told me something even weirder. She said that while she’s out drinking she wants to get laid by random men. She told me if I can handle it. I told her honestly that I don’t want anything like that to happen at all. I don’t want another man having sex with her. But I know, in the end, it’s her decision. <br><br>However, she kept pushing and pushing the idea of her getting laid. She even told me that she already has an app to meet up with random guys for hook ups. I told her she needs to delete the app. But she said no. So I told her she can’t have sex with other guys. But she told me it’s too late now because she already connected with guys who want to hook up. <br><br>I don’t know what to do now. What should I do?