Hello dear siblings who are also lonely and consider marrying their sibling. Things DO get better a few years later. If you're not suffering from loneliness, then enjoy and have fun being who you are. But if you're suffering from loneliness, then there is hope.

I consider myself very lucky because I found a very supportive and loving boyfriend who is my everything. He's nothing like my family who made my life a living hell because they were hateful towards incest. I used to listen to everything they put me through and suffer silently because I didn't know I had a choice. I thought I was just an aberration. When I realized I had a choice, I came out and my life became a disaster. But after a few years of social isolation and suffering and searching for the self love and approval I never received from my family, I found my own personal happiness and a partner who loves me for the unique individual I am.<br><br>You have a choice. If you have a choice, then please choose yourself.<br><br>I'm 35 now and still get judgemental looks for being a 35-year-old virgin. I've heard firsthand that I can't be attractive or intelligent if I'm a 35-year-old virgin. People are rude and unempathetic when they don't understand something. But after I spent years loving myself and having fun, I realized that my virginity is my own and I should be proud of it. I was in control of my own choices and my body was mine to give away. And I realized that there is a special person out there who will accept me for who I am and will take my virginity for the right reasons and in the best way possible, and that this person is very very special and I will love, admire, cherish, and appreciate them for the rest of my life.<br><br>This person exists, and I'm lucky to have them. I know in my heart that this person is out there for me, and I had to search for myself and be true to myself before I found them. But they are out there and I'm so lucky to have them. Life goes on and gets better.<br><br>I hope this helps. I know how hard it is to suffer from loneliness, and I wish isolation upon no one.