I am born and raised in the Middle East our culture is incel friendly

I am Middle Easterner and born in the Middle East. Most of my life I was incel here. Our culture is patriarchy and doesn't tolerate being lonely. I get a lot of help from my family/prolonged family and pressure as well to get married. Our culture is full of arrangement marriages. I am 31 and I got engaged and am about to get married. My family made me go out with a lot of women. We were pressure by our parents to get married around 21-30. Once you reach 30 you become like a shame to your family. We have this culture of extended family. Our family is big. We make sure to check on our cousin/uncle/aunt our community is tight. It's normal for an average middle eastern man to have 10 marriages proposals. Our culture doesn't tolerate being lonely.