My husband is cheating on me with my best friend. I sent him screenshots of his conversation with her AND my conversation with the tinder dude I’m meeting for lunch tomorrow.

My husband and I have been together for 8 years. Married for 5. <br><br>For the past year he has been remote, and I’ve been going to work. We live in an apartment in a big city. Neither one of us grows our hair long, so we go to the same barber. He recommended my best friend (let’s call her Lea) to cut my hair ever since day 1. In fact we went to school together but I had never met her before. We became fast friends and I even stood up for her at her wedding last year. <br><br>Last week I had to work extra hours and so did he. At 8pm I called him to see when he was coming home to no answer. At 10 I called again and he said he was at Lea’s place, they were working on something for her wedding. I even talked to Lea for a bit to make sure they were okay. <br><br>Shit got weird when the next day I had to work remote and he said he was going to his friend Josh’s place to watch the game. At 10 that night he still hadn’t come back so I called and he was at Lea’s place AGAIN. I pressed and he said he was helping them with their dog. <br><br>Long story short, I snooped into his phonebook and saw his conversations with Lea and…well. It’s bad. <br><br>I sent him the screenshots of his conversations with her and… the conversation I had with the guy from tinder that I’m meeting tomorrow for lunch (just as a fuck you you know?) <br><br>EDIT: wow, this blew up. Thank you for the awards kind strangers. <br><br>EDIT 2: I did NOT write this. Please stop sending me death threats and shit in my DMs.<br><br>EDIT 3: I think I’ve written this before in one of the comments but I don’t have the energy to go looking for it.<br><br>I don’t have the mental energy to write everything down but it’s been 3 months since this whole thing blew up in my face. <br><br>The day after I found out, I told my husband I was going to the store and instead went to my mom’s place. When I came back he had already moved out and his brother was picking up his stuff.<br><br>I refused to go to therapy and it’s been a long road down. My mom and my sister helped me a lot in the beginning and they even pushed me to start going to therapy. I still do.<br><br>I unfollowed Lea from all my socials and she tried to contact me through text twice. I ignored both times and she eventually gave up. <br><br>My husband helped me buy my first house this year (before everything blew up) and he was kind enough to let me stay there with my mom and not make me homeless. The only time I saw him again was when his lawyer and mine met up for the divorce and it was as awkward as you can imagine. <br><br>Not sure if that’s what you guys wanted… but yeah. My new year’s resolution is to focus on myself. Thank you for all your support.