My ex came crying back to me

I was wondering why I’m always the one that dates fat girls and why I get the fat ones when my friends always dated hot girls.#####So I was in a relationship with a fat chick she was 5’9 170lbs she was 23 and had a daughter who was 4 at the time.<br>She would always tell me I’m hot and that I’m perfect for being with her.<br>But I was just wondering why am I the one that gets the fat chicks.<br>So I decided to ask my best friend who was dating a hot model like chick why I always get the fat chicks.<br>He told me that they are more available and that they would do anything to keep their man happy aka sex.<br>But then he told me that I’m kinda fat myself and I shouldn’t be focusing on women being fat.<br>Now I didn’t take that as an insult it was more like he pointed out the obvious.<br>I don’t really spend time with women just friends and family.<br>I was 5’8 230 at the time.<br>So the relationship went well I was even planning to marry her but her sister and brother told me to keep distance because there’s something suspicious with her.<br>So I pushed her away and she started telling me weird stuffs like she feels like she’s going to lose her family and that she’s currently staying with me.<br>I asked her what she was talking about but she just denied everything.<br>But then I started noticing strange things like all of her clothes are in my house in the closet, I even started noticing the fact that she has 3 kids not 2.<br>But I was just confused and didn’t think about it much but then I came home to her in my house and I started arguing I asked her why do you keep my house key?<br>She started crying and I was just confused and angry because she was crying and the little kid was crying too.<br>I calmed down and she told me the reason why she was acting strange and crying because she’s pregnant with my child but she was in the process of hiding it.<br>Her family didn’t know and they would kick her out if they found out.<br>Then I was like why does she have 3 kids?<br>And she told me she was married and that her husband is in jail and that she was on the run from her family because they wanted her to get an abortion.<br>I freaked out and asked her to get out and started blocking her.<br>Her family came to me asking what happened I told them whatever I did to my ex.<br>I gave her an ultimatum to either tell her family or I will tell them.<br>She came crying to me saying she will do anything in order to stay with me and be with me I should just give her another chance and I said okay I will give you a chance just tell your family.<br>So she told them and they started telling me to stay away from her and that I’m the reason why she’s not with her family.<br>I also told her that since she’s on the run she can’t stay with me I’m not in good terms with her family and I also started losing weight and started hitting the gym and I started losing weight and got down to 170lbs.<br>I also found out she wasn’t married to the guy in jail but she was in a relationship with him and he’s the father of her third child.<br>I also found out that her daughter’s father was her ex and that she was cheating on him with the guy in jail.<br>I also found out I was her 5th boyfriend.<br>Anyways whatever I did to my ex she ended up telling her family that she got kicked out because she’s with me and started blaming me for everything.<br><br>After that I stopped seeing her and stopped talking to her I even started dating other girls.<br>I then stopped going to the gym and started gaining weight again but I was just stressed and burned out from work.<br>I ended up leaving my job in 2022 and moved to a different country and started a new job and started hitting the gym again I currently weigh 140lbs.<br>And I’m considering plastic surgery.<br><br>So fast forward to October 2023 I got a call from a unknown number and I decided to answer and it was my ex she was asking me if we can talk and I said sure we can talk about what.<br>She told me she wanted me back and that she wasn’t able to forget about me and I was the one who had her heart and she’s regretful of what happened and that she missed me badly.<br>I asked her to meet me at this coffee shop and I showed up and she came with her sister.<br>I was surprised to see them and I was wondering why did she come with her sister.<br>I was just being nice and asking them how they were doing and stuff and it was weird because I didn’t know what to do.<br>And she came crying to me saying I missed you and I don’t know what happened when we first met but something just clicked and I fell in love with you at first sight I don’t know what kind of spell you put on me or why she fell for me but she was crying and I was just there frozen and didn’t know what to do.<br>I was just acting like an idiot saying I don’t know what to do with this situation and I’m just awkward.<br>I didn’t care about her much I was just being nice and asking her to be strong and telling her to stop crying and she was just like crying like a baby and her sister came and told me to please take her back I don’t know what kind of crap to do with her we are just sick of her crying about you that there’s no one better than you and things like that.<br>I was just telling them no and no and no I’m good and that I don’t need her I’m not the same person I was back then and I changed for the better.<br>But she just kept saying I want to be with you no matter what.<br><br>I just don’t get why women give up their whole life for a guy.<br>Anyways she didn’t leave until I said okay I’ll take her back.<br>So I took her back because I didn’t want her to keep crying and I told her to be strong and stuff and told her family that there’s nothing to be ashamed off because she’s 28 and an adult and she can make her own decisions and stuff.<br>Anyways it was awkward when we were at home because we were in a relationship from 2018-2019 and we just kinda went back to the same routine.<br><br>I don’t get why she’s obsessed I don’t even think about her anymore and I’m wondering why she’s obsessed because we were in a relationship for a year and that’s it.<br>I also forgot to tell you but I didn’t even have sex with her and whatever we did she was the one who initiated it.<br>I don’t even know if I did anything to her or not.<br>I guess it doesn’t really matter because I’m gonna break up with her anyway.<br><br>Also do you guys think I should stay with her and enjoy the time being or should I just end it off.<br><br>Also we were in a relationship for a year and that’s it and we broke up and I never heard from her again and it was almost 4 years since we broke up.<br><br>Anyways I currently live in a different country so when I eventually move back to my home country I’m gonna break up with her.<br>Anyways that’s my story guys and excuse my grammar I’m not good in English.<br><br>Also what do you think I should do with her sister?