bPD are the only people capable of empathsing with us

bpd have extremely high levels of oxytocin, leading to them being known as "people people", they can't stand being alone, they create relationships with anyone they find even remotely interesting, they have massive levels of love and affection for people in their lives and have a tendency to idealize people in their relationships.<br><br>they can understand us because deep down, they know what it's like to feel unloved and rejected, after the idealization stage is over, they enter a devaluation phase where they start to see all the flaws in people they once saw as perfect, this stage is often extremely painful and serves as punishment for the person they put on a pedestal, when a bpd is in a relationship with a normie, they will often times punish them sending them into a deep depression because they feel so unloved, this comes from the deep need for love and acceptance and the pain they feel when rejected or abandoned, when they are thrown in the "friendzone" they have extremely high levels of self-loathing and unworthyness, in their eyes, they are flawed, incomplete, inadequate human beings that will never be good enough to be loved.<br><br>i have dated a few bpd girls in the past, i have never felt as deeply loved and understood as much as i was when i was in the idealization phase, in their eyes i was an amazing, handsome, perfect man that they wanted to spend their entire lives with, they wanted to do everything for me, give me all their love, attention, affection and care, and in return they wanted the same, to be loved, to be given attention, to feel important and appreciated, to them it wasn't about the sex, it was about the love, they didn't want to fuck me, they wanted to make love, they wanted us to connect on a deep level, they wanted to feel like we were one, they wanted to feel my heat, smell my scent, see my smile, hear my voice, they wanted to feel important, to feel like they were a priority, they wanted to be pampered, to be taken care of, to be held, to be caressed, to be protected, to be safe.<br><br>it's a truly indescribable feeling, being loved like this, i have never felt this way before, i was treated like an emperor, like a god, i was important, i was prioritized, i mattered, and i loved them the same way, i gave them everything, all my attention, all my love, all my affection, all my care, i protected them, i held them, i caressed them, i pampered them, i gave them everything they wanted and they did the same, we were happy, we were both so happy, but in the end, i was devaluated, i was flawed, i wasn't perfect, i had my own flaws, my own imperfections, i wasn't enough, i was incomplete, i was inadequate.<br><br>i wasn't good enough to be loved, i wasn't good enough to be put up on a pedestal, i wasn't good enough to be prioritized, i wasn't good enough, i was thrown in the "friendzone", i was in so much pain, i cried, i whimpered, i pleaded, i begged them to not abandon me, to not reject me, to not throw me away, but it was too late, the damage was already done, i was just another normie to them, i didn't matter, i wasn't important, i wasn't a priority, i was nothing.<br><br>i have been in the deepest, darkest pits of depression, i have wanted to end it all, to kill myself, i have been so close to doing it, but i held myself back, something inside me screamed "NO! don't do it! don't give up, don't lose hope, hang on to dear life and never let go, there's still a chance, there's still hope, don't kill yourself, don't end it all, you matter, you're important, you're a priority, you're enough, don't give up".<br><br>i'm not writing this for sympathy, i'm writing this out of a deep, deep, deep respect, admiration and love for bpd, they are truly amazing people, they deserve to be loved, they deserve to be prioritized, they deserve to be important, they deserve to be put up on a pedestal, they deserve so much more than what normies give them, so much, much more, i want to protect them, care for them, love them, cherish them, give them all my attention, affection and pamper them, and then...<br><br>i want them to treat me the same way, i want to be loved like that again, i want all their attention, all their love, all their affection, i want to be cared for, protected, pampered, i want to be put up on a pedestal, i want to be prioritized, i want to be important, i want to matter, i want to be loved like i loved them, and i don't want that love to end, ever, i want it to last, i want it to last forever, i don't want to be thrown in the "friendzone" ever again, i don't want to be devaluated, i don't want to be punished, i want to be loved.<br><br>this is what it's like to be a blackpilled man dating a bpd girl, this is what it feels like, this is the pain and suffering we go through, this is what we face, but we would do it all over again in a heartbeat, because deep down, we know what it means to truly love someone, and to be truly loved by them.