Here's a special message for anyone who says, "What if my partner is lying?" or "My partner's lying! I know they are."

This just makes me so angry because you're 100% refusing to believe in boundaries and basic human rights. Your partner has told you that they don't feel safe sharing their browser history or phone, or whatever it is, with you yet you still expect them to do so out of fear of being cheated on.<br><br><br>If you're so paranoid that your partner might cheat, and so hurt and insecure that it's making you act like a crazy person, then why are you in the relationship?<br><br><br>This doesn't make you a victim. It doesn't make you a survivor. You're not some poor wife who was blindsided by her cheating husband like the media makes it out to be. No, you're a fucking abuser who doesn't believe in boundaries and doesn't respect basic human rights.<br><br><br>In a healthy relationship, partners don't force other partners to feel violated, taken advantage of, unsafe or inferior. That's called abuse and it's 100% your fault. That's not your partner's job, to make you feel safe. If you can't trust them and are this paranoid, then get out of the relationship before you traumatize your partner any further.<br><br><br>You're not a victim. You're the perpetrator.<br><br><br>Edit: How the fuck did this get so many upvotes and views?