I allowed people to control my life and now I’m in my 30’s and wondering what I ever wanted.

I didn’t ask myself enough what I wanted about life. I never had a reason to stop take control of my life by myself.<br><br>Edit to add: I allowed people to influence and control my life without ever stopping to ask myself what I wanted. I did what I was told by everyone else (parents, siblings, teachers, coworkers, friends). Just looking back into my past and started to understand why I’m unhappy.