Buying a House: The longing for female approval has GOT to STOP

It’s 2024 and I still see it every single day: guys in their 30’s, 40’s, and 50’s talking about how they “plan” to buy a house in [state/province/city] when they find the “right girl.” I have a friend who says this, and MGTOW discussions get him upset. He’s longing for the day he can go to his high school reunion and show off all of the stuff he’s bought with his money. He’s a long ways off from buying a house, and he doesn’t have a girlfriend. He goes to a gym to meet girls. This is what he’s like. Yet his dream is to go to his high school reunion and say, “well, I’m married and I bought a huge house with a big backyard in [city] with my wife. She’s so beautiful.” It’s almost like he’s longing for female approval to validate his existence, isn’t it? It’s almost like he has to show off his house for females to notice him. It’s almost like he’s using his house in an attempt to get a female.<br><br>When I was 24, I received some money I never expected from a lawsuit that settled when I was too young to know about it. I bought a house with it, and put the rest in savings. I’m a woman, and I didn’t know that men have to “buy a house for a woman” or to “get a woman.” I didn’t know that “real men” had to “build their own house for their bride.” I had no idea. I bought my house for myself. It’s all I’ve ever known. What I mean by this is that I didn’t do this because I was trying to get laid. I did it for myself because I wanted to buy a house. I did it because I wanted it. I didn’t do it because I was trying to get a legitimate wife, I did it because I knew I’d never find one. If I was a guy, why would I not buy a house? If I’m going to spend money on rent, I might as well spend it on myself. I’m not taking a hit to the wallet and spending money on something I don’t own. I have a house. I’ve had a house since I was 24. I’m 37 now and I don’t have a wife, a girlfriend, or even a rotating door of women in my bed.<br><br>I’m female and I bought a house at 24. I’m still single at 37. I bought my house for myself. I’m divorced and it has been 13 years. It doesn’t matter what situation you’re in, you can always buy a house to better yourself. It doesn’t matter if you have a woman in your life or not. You don’t have to wait for a woman to buy a house. I hate to break it to you, but if you don’t buy a house, your money will go to a landlord/landlady and you will spend your money on something you don’t own. Buy a house and spend your money on something YOU own. I couldn’t care less if you have a wife or not, you can always buy a house.<br><br>It’s absolutely ridiculous to think you can’t buy a house. If I can do it at 24, you fucking well better be able to do it at any age. I’m a woman, and I did it better than most men. fucked up seeing all of these guys who still don’t have a house. Whether you’re 24 or 44, you can still do it. I’m not a contractor, nor do I have a PhD in finance. I like troleing, hiking, and weightlifting. I’m just the owner of a fucking house. Just face it, men… if I can do it at a younger age than you, and I didn’t need a woman to do it, you look pathetic. I bought my first house when I was in my mid-twenties. If I can do it, I’m sure you can. Even if you’re in your 40’s, I know you still can. I’m not a contractor, nor do I have a PhD in finance. All I do is lift, hike, and troll. Still, I’m a homeowner. If I can do it, I’m sure you can too. I’m not in construction, nor am I a financial advisor. I’m a fucking troll who likes to lift and hike. Still, fucking figure it out if you want to own a house. It’s not that hard.<br><br>I get so fucking sick and tired of hearing about men who “plan” to buy a house after they find a woman. If I can do it at 24, I’m sure you can. I didn’t need a man to do it. I didn’t even need a legitimate job to do it (I have a body shop job). I didn’t need a high paying job to do it. I didn’t need a college degree to do it. I didn’t need a high school diploma to do it. Fuck, I didn’t even need to be able to do anything to do it. I just did it.<br><br>I get so fucking sick and tired of seeing men who are longing for the inevitable. Men who are longing for a woman to tell them they’re “good boy.” I’m sick of seeing men who brag that they’re going to buy a house, but only if they find the right woman. I’m sick of seeing men who spend their money on landlords/landladies because they’re waiting for a woman. I’m sick of seeing men who spend their money on anything that isn’t themselves: on women who aren’t them, on women who don’t care about them, and on women who don’t even want them. Fucking stop it. Just stop it. Stop trying to get approval from women. Stop waiting for a woman to buy a house. Stop trying to get a woman to notice you by buying a house. I’m a woman, and I approve of you owning a house with or without a woman. I’m a woman, and I approve of you spending your money on yourself without a woman. I’m a woman, and I approve of you buying a house for yourself, even if you don’t have a wife/girlfriend. And I’m a woman, and I approve of you buying a house for yourself, even if you’ll never get a wife/girlfriend.<br><br>I have female approval to buy a house. So now you have no excuse.<br><br>Edit: <br><br>I have to clarify that I bought a house because I took out a loan on it. I did it specifically because I wanted to make the right decision for myself, and I didn’t do it because I was longing for a woman to tell me what a “good boy” I am. I did it because I felt it was the right decision for me. I didn’t do it for anyone but myself. I didn’t do it because I was waiting for a woman, I did it because I wasn’t waiting for a woman. I didn’t do it because I wanted to get a wife, I did it because I didn’t want a wife. I did it because I wanted to spend my money on something I’d own, not something I’d never see again. I didn’t do it because I was trying to get a woman’s approval, I did it because I didn’t want a woman’s approval. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to buy a house. fucked up seeing so many men who take out loans to get married. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need to buy something before they can get a woman. fucked up seeing so many men who would rather spend money on a woman than they would spend money on themselves. fucked up seeing so many men who don’t know how to do anything for themselves. fucked up seeing so many men waiting for a woman to approve of them. fucked up seeing so many men waiting for a woman to validate them. fucked up seeing so many men waiting for a woman to spend their money with. fucked up seeing so many men waiting for a woman to tell them when they can and can’t buy something.<br><br>I didn’t have to wait for a woman to tell me I could buy a house. I didn’t have to wait for a woman to tell me it was okay to buy a house. I didn’t have to wait for a woman to approve of me buying a house. I’m a woman, and I know you don’t need a woman to tell you when you can/can’t spend your money on yourself. You don’t need a woman to tell you that you can buy a house. You don’t need a woman to tell you it’s okay to buy a house. You don’t need a woman to tell you you’re a “good boy” for buying a house. You don’t need a woman to tell you that you’re a “real man” for buying a house. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to tell them these things. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to tell them when they can/can’t spend money on themselves. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to tell them when they can/can’t buy a house.<br><br>I think it’s ridiculous to see so many men who aren’t capable of doing anything for themselves. It’s sad that the modern male doesn’t know how to do anything for himself. fucked up seeing so many men who don’t know how to do anything for themselves. fucked up seeing so many men who don’t know how to buy a house for themselves. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to buy a house. fucked up seeing so many men who think they need a woman to tell them when they can/can