Police called on me for not giving my phone to my ex wife to delete pictures of her in her underwear

I have an ex wife, married 2016, divorced 2019.<br><br>I have a lot of photos of us together, and some of her in her underwear that she was okay with me having. Well recently she demanded I delete them. I wasn't okay with this, because I felt that she was trying to erase our whole marriage. She then sent her brother and some other people to my house to get my phone and delete them herself. She ends up calling the police on me for not giving her my phone.<br><br>The cops end up coming and telling me I need to give her my phone or they will arrest me.<br><br>I asked the police if this was legal, and they told me it was because she was the one in the pictures.<br><br>So I hand over my phone, and she goes through it and deletes a bunch of pictures. Not only of her, but pictures of me with other women as well. Then she has the police take my phone to be destroyed.<br><br>After that I receive a notice in the mail that I'm not allowed within 100 feet of her, because she got a restraining order on me.<br><br>She ends up getting in touch with me several months later because she needs money for some reason, and I'm the only person she knows who can help her.<br><br>I agree to help her, but only if she drops the restraining order. So she ends up dropping the restraining order and I give her the money.<br><br>Later on that week she ends up calling me up asking for more money, and I tell her no.<br><br>She then tells me she's pregnant with our child, and that she needs money for the abortion. She tells me that if I don't pay for it she will get the restraining order again and tell the police that I got her pregnant and I'll end up on child support.<br><br>I end up borrowing money to pay for her abortion.<br><br>Several weeks later she's asking for help again, and I have no money left. She then tells me she's going to report me to the police for abusing her.<br><br>The police show up at my job and tell me that I need to press charges against her for extorting me, and that they're going to arrest her for abuse.<br><br>Several days later she gets in touch with me telling me that the police told her that if she drops the charges they will arrest me instead. She then demands money from me again or she will do it.<br><br>She ends up calling me several times a day for the past three months and I end up having to change my phone number.<br><br>She ends up sending her mother and brother to my house and they try to break in my door. My mom is with me and she calls the police and they tell us to stop wasting their time.<br><br>I end up having to move out to a different house.<br><br>I get a call from a random number and it's my ex wife, and she tells me she's going to send the police to my new house and get me arrested.<br><br>She ends up calling the police on me and telling them that I'm threatening her, when I'm not even talking to her.<br><br>The police tell me that she has proof that I've been threatening her.<br><br>The police tell me that they're going to arrest me unless I agree to a 5 year restraining order.<br><br>I end up having to agree to it.<br><br>It's been a year now and it's finally over.