AITA for refusing my husband sex until he does the chores: He watched TV and then fell asleep. I got off by myself in the shower

Im not: He watched TV and fell asleep as I was getting ready for bed. When I was done I went looking for him. He was on the couch. I woke him up and told him that the chores weren't done and to get to it. <br>: He was understandable a bit annoyed, I told him he had the entire day to get them done well before we were going to go to bed. He said I was being mean by waking him up. I said it was better than letting him sleep: He was mad at that as well. So I told him we could just go to bed and I would in the morning. He said he would get right on it. I was tired so I went to bed: He tossed and turned all night and watched me sleep. He then finally fell asleep. <br>I woke up today and did the chores. He was mad that I did. Then he was interested in having sex. I told him he did not do the chores so he was not invited to visit. I also told him that I watched him sleep and as I had needs, I took care of them. I then walked out of the bedroom. He well lets just say he is not happy. I reminded him why I was mad and that for us to work together we need to have a chore list. I told him I would be happy to work on it with him and compromise on things. He then told me I suck and that he would never do that. I told him that is why I was mad. He left without anything else to say.